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I was in a fraternity for some time. I would probably say that although many stereotypes are true, a fraternity is something that you will get out what you put into it. Its difficult to get a sense of which one is right for you because they can be vastly different from one another. People say you pay for your friends. So I would suggest you become friends with them first to know what you are going to pay for. Then it is no longer "paying for friends", its "you and your buddies pooling some money to have a good time." Fraternities get a bad rap. The one that I joined had very little to do with the stereotypes, but I don't believe we were the norm. I've never been a big drinker and was never chastised for it. I can honestly say I was never hazed. It was a very fun experience and if I "bought my friends" than I would say their friendship was definitely worth it. They are still my best friends years later. Its not for everybody, but I'm glad I took part in it.
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Lord, have mercy on my wicked soul
I wouldn't mistreat you baby, for my weight in gold.
-Son House, Death Letter Blues
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