Just like anything else in life, you have to live for yourself. You know yourself better than anyone else. I never really had the urge to have kids. I could have been just as happy without them. My wife always reminds me that I said to her "We could always buy a sailboat" when she asked what would we do if were unable to have kids naturally. It just wasn't a priority for me. I love my 2 boys but without my wife pushing me we probably never would have had them.
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