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Old 02-03-2004, 03:20 PM   #107 (permalink)
wilbjammin
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I define too young by a measure of maturity and autonomy. I know a few 25-year-olds that are too young for me. When being older turns into a major power advantage, that means that you're too old for him/her. To come up with an exact number certainly doesn't take into account anything, but I will say that it is likely that girls in high school are not ready for sex on a psychological level. But, given societal norms and whatnot, that doesn't mean it isn't going to happen. 18 may be an arbitrary number our society uses to help deal with this gap and the power issues, and I'm generally fine with it. I certainly am not going to be looking for anyone that young. And the truth be told, if you want someone younger than that you're going to have to handle it maturely or else you will get caught and burned pretty badly. Passing that test means that either you've found someone who's mature enough, or that you've totally dominated the younger person. I would hope that the latter circumstance would happen a lot less than I think it does.
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