WK, keep the focus away from the pot and she should keep the focus away from your smoking and drinking. After all, the problem isn't with what she's doing, but with the effect it's having on you.
I don't know that you can change her, but, if I were you, I'd be constantly telling her how her actions are effecting me.
You're doing a great job so far man, just keep up the good work.
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