Yeah, I have lots of female friends, and I still want to sleep with most of them. It is just something about how men are wired. However, the desire to sleep with other women is more than overrode by my love for my wife. I have female friends to just get a female perspective on things and just to talk. Most guys just don't achieve a level of emotional intimacy that is enough for me at times. I have women friends I talk to about weight loss, relationships, etc. that can really offer me good perspectives. Just learn to listen and not try and fix their problems. Women like someone who commiserates with them and doesn't necessarily try to fix them or their problems.
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