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It's all about confidence Strange Famous. You can be as ugly as you want (well, to a point), but if you can pull off the confidence/hint of arrogance routine without being a complete rabbit, your basically home.
As HFrankenstein said, too much self-deprecation. Be a little more arrogant, and a lot more confident, and things will change. Sure, be the gentleman, but only after she knows what you want and is still sticking around.
Another thing, when a girl says 'Your like a brother' or words to that effect, get out of there. I've used that old chestnut plenty of times, and I'll tell you right now, I say that after I know I never want to sleep with them. If she just want to be friends, walk away, you seem like you have plenty of female friends, who needs another? Worst case scenario is she never speaks to you again... more time to continue your search. Best case scenario, she likes the new you!
Good luck!!!
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