Well if you totally look at it gay is just a word. You could dream about men all day long as a guy that really doesn't make you gay. It would make you curious. Our minds think and explore things. I remember hal saying something like this before. Hell someone could have a homosexual experience and that still doesn't make them gay. Just curious. I hate the fact that the word "gay" is such a widely used word like it is.
You may or may not enodorse homosexuality, or you may be curious about it. That doesn't make you gay. Gay is a lable in my opinion.
What I'm trying to get at here is the desire to do this "circle jerk" doesn't make you wierd per say. Some may disapprove of this but others may wonder. Some men think about other guys. Some watch them, some partake in activities with them. Simply doing this sort of activity does not neccessarily make you gay. This means your mind is exploring possibilities and ideas that it thinks of. That's not a bad thing, it's how the brain works.
So in a final note I want to say that anyone who knows any information about the said idea in question should just answer it. There is no point for negative comments, or comments that say, "Ew gross". This is forum is designed to help people out with questions or ideas about their sexuality. It isn't designed to make fun or slander them. Be nice.
And to answer your question, I've watched porn with a friend before.. it wasn't really planned. We were watching tv latenight and found it on the tube. We watched it a bit. We didn't really pay attention to each other. We did talk about about it and laugh and make some jokes. There wasn't anything sexual between the two of us, however the probably was on each of our personal sides. I mean watching porn has a purpose and it started that. I don't remember much after that. I mean we watched it for a bit and then it got boring. Since I can't say it was planned I'm not sure I can help you in your search to find out more about this. I do however hope that you will find the answers you're looking for. Good luck man.
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