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Plan9Senior · 02-02-2004, 07:56 PM

Dude, if you are not married and the person that you are dating (girlfriend/boyfriend.. whatever you want to call them) leaves for longer then a few months, end the commitment. There is absolutely NO reason to hold out for somebody (who you arent married to) because they decide to leave for a long amount of time. To do so is only setting yourself up for heartache. When they return, pick up where you left off if you both decide the feelings and desire to share your life with eachother is still there. Anybody who disagrees with me about this most likely has some insecurity issues (or control issues). The cold fact is hockeyguy, you don't have a normal relationship right now. You have a phone buddy. However, whether you feel you deserve more then that is something you will have to live with right now...

02-02-2004, 07:56 PM	#53 (permalink)
Plan9Senior Banned Location: Orange County, California	Dude, if you are not married and the person that you are dating (girlfriend/boyfriend.. whatever you want to call them) leaves for longer then a few months, end the commitment. There is absolutely NO reason to hold out for somebody (who you arent married to) because they decide to leave for a long amount of time. To do so is only setting yourself up for heartache. When they return, pick up where you left off if you both decide the feelings and desire to share your life with eachother is still there. Anybody who disagrees with me about this most likely has some insecurity issues (or control issues). The cold fact is hockeyguy, you don't have a normal relationship right now. You have a phone buddy. However, whether you feel you deserve more then that is something you will have to live with right now... Last edited by Plan9Senior; 02-02-2004 at 08:03 PM..