tecoyah

Perhaps clarification is in order-

Life is full of choices, none of them wrong.

Maybe I have reached the age where I understand my "mis-takes" are chances to learn and grow. It is all relative in the long run. Every action and re- action we create is an opportunity. I no longer look at pain as an enemy per say, but as an aspect of needed experience to become more.
Still maybe I am "wrong". That wouldnt change my advice in this thread.

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