Well King your sorta in a situation that I am in. But it involves my dad. My dad smokes pot and alot (and I think he deals it) people that smoke pot don't bother me that bad unless they do it all the freaking time and believe it's the most important thing to do. My dad doesn't know that I know. (but it's kinda obvious when you find enough to fill up a half gallon milk container in an old military ammo case and zig zags or a roach laying around) This used to really piss me off in high school, people would accuse me all the time of being a pothead and asking me if I had weed to sell
. Sometimes before me and my family leave to go on a trip he has to run up to the shop to check on stuff and that bugs me. Or when I come to visit him in his shop and he tells me to go to the house cause he needs time to himself (when I visit him about once a day cause I live away from now) which really bugs the piss outta me. I've pretty much grown to ignore it. In your situation though I would have a serious discussion with her...if she would do less of it, that would be a great start, it sounds like your mom will smoke whenever she isnt' sleeping....might be even better of a thing cause it would cost her less money to support the habit if she did it less. I'll admit it would make me mad as hell if she was doing it nonstop to the point she can't allocate time to remember to do shit like pick you up. And then hopefully she will quit doing it. Within time...sorry to say but your probably not going to be able to get instant results