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Originally posted by txlovely
"Get over it" is not an appropriate response. To anything. Ever!
CinnamonGirl, if it's causing a problem in your marriage, then you must confront him again. I would suggest marriage counseling. I know someone whose marriage was broken up by porn addiction and frankly, that's just not a good excuse. Your husband has other issues that he must deal with that have nothing to do with you. You're obviously open-minded and that's good! He should appreciate this and work with you but instead he's being secretive and hurtful. Don't let him rob your marriage of the intimacy you deserve. Do something before it's too late, especially if you have children. What a horrible legacy to leave - your parents divorced because your dad enjoyed looking at naked chics online more than your mom. 
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In addition to marriage counseling, there are also classes and counseling that he can go to to overcome his addiction to porn. Some people scoff at the fact that these groups really do exist, but until you know someone who struggles with something like this, it's hard to comprehend. Porn addiction
could theoretically be a 'good excuse' to break up a marriage, depending on the circumstances. But don't make that your first option.