Have I ever cheated?.......No.
Have I ever been tempted?......No.
Have I ever looked at a woman and thought "wow"?.....Yep!
For me, love is a term which takes into account all sorts of emotions and thoughts; if I love somebody, my first desire is for them to be happy....whatever the cost may be to me. As a result, I have never had to deal with the "trap" questions, such as having my girlfriend point out a woman and say, "she's cute!"....because when I agree, it's with the full knowledge that I'm not going home with anybody other than my S.O.....and we both know it.
Of course there will be people who get my attention. Put a six-foot woman in a lime-green mohawk in my general area, and I'll notice! But still, I find that I don't give myself to others easily, so once I do I stay committed to that person.
But that's just me. I have a friend who couldn't keep it in his pants, and his wife found out about it....two nights ago. I guess she made quite the scene at the local bowling alley when she confronted him about it. The strange part about it all was that he used to go on and on about how he's fooling around, but also how he loves his wife so much. I feel for both of them, but let's face it: he was a dumbass.....
Last edited by wry1; 01-28-2004 at 11:11 AM..
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