I'm going to tell you this but I am 100% sure you wont listen, but I'm speaking from experience.
I have posted a number of times about my asshole past, so I know how this guy is working.
He wants sex, plain and simple. He knew you liked him so he took advantage of that.
"What about that comment though?"
Yeah.... things like that with men are planted on purpose, it's to get this running through your head, as long as you're trying to figure out what he meant you're thinking of him... which leaves the door open to more sexual activities.
The reason he told you he "cant figure out his feelings" is a cop-out. He wants to F_ck you but doesn't want to close any other doors. I promise you he has some other women on the side he's juggling.
This is the most important advice from someone who was there, just trust me on this. DONT believe you can change him. He won't change because he is getting everything he wants right now the way he is now with nothing bad in return. He may even come back speaking of a woman that hurt him so bad he "doesn't want to get hurt again". Trust me this is another fake, showing a deep casm of hurt and anguish is the best way to change an "I cant believe he did this!" to an "awww... come here...". I'll say this again, he wont change because he doesn't have to. Find a quality man and move on.
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