Admit Nothing, Deny Everything, Make Counter Accusations.
You'll find this creedo works in a multitude of situations.
Forgive me, but this post made me cringe on a number of levels, nothing personal.
Key Words/Phrases Used: Crush; College; He's flirty with everyone; He invited me back to his frat house to hang out; He said he didn't mean to do what he had done; He's said he doesn't want a relationship right now.
And the killer phrase: HE KNOWS I LIKE HIM.
As caustic as TOK's first post might have been, he's dead on. And I think that he speaks candidly for the majority, rather than the minority. I don't mean to belittle your feelings for him, which I am sure are genuine, but you might want to let his post sink in. As distasteful as some might find it, I think it is sound advice to consider if you want to keep a reputation intact.
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