i think if you love someone enough, you would break up with them before ever cheating. thinking about it, desiring it, those are normal. but i think if you would act upon the desire, then you aren't really in love with them.
i personally don't think its fair to hold your SO to rules and regulations that you don't follow. cheaters just want to have someone who'll always be there for them, no matter what, and in the meantime do whatever else they want to. that has never been something i've liked.
i would never cheat on someone i was in love with because i want them to be happy and i know that if i'm desperate enough to sleep with someone else, then i would be better off without that person anyway....and they would be better off without me.
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