Also dont forget its about being yourself, not a magazine ad. So if you arent a penny loafer or wing tip type of guy, dont get them. Go with a solid leather boot if you are outdoorsy probaly. Something that has minimal ammounts of stiching, and definatly hard leather, no suede boots here. They let a little out of your personality.
jewelry, definatly no digital watches...you can find something really nice on ebay these days. a coworker got a beautiful Invicta watch on ebay for pennys on the dollar. Go with a neutral color like silver, and like a silver or black back. Im one for earings tho, but keep it simple. If its a formal occasion Id think about taking it out, but light formal, a stud. Kahki day, a hoop is fine.
Dont forget skin and hair care while you are at it. Keep that facial hair under check.
all else fails...watch some queer eye for the straight guy
. but dont listen to everything....some of that is just too.....yea