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Originally posted by im just a girl
the problem is this... we talked the next day and he said that he didn't mean to do what he had done... he lost control or something. he knows i like him, but i cant figure out his feelings for me. he's said he doesnt want a relationship right now, but i dont know if thats telling me to back off or not.
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Like ratbastid said, that was supposed to clear things up and it didn't. So yeah, you're going to need to talk to him about it again and make him be more specific.
Here are some of the possible reasons behind his original discussion:
a) He's afraid to commit and might be interested.
b) He doesn't want to commit and isn't interested.
c) He was looking for a quickie with someone he knew he could get it from and still wants to be friends.
d) He was looking for a quickie and flat out used you.
When you approach him to clarify on his first discussion just be prepared to hear things you don't want to hear because it's a possibility, but also remember to be hopeful because good things can come out of the second discussion.