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Originally posted by elwoodblues43
I think I was worried about how it was going to be, it being good for her, lasting long enough, so on and so forth.
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I'm willing to bet money (ok, a penny) that that's the cause for your issue. Now, the thing about this that's really common is the first time it happens it might have a physical biological reason for happening (i.e. a cold, stuffy nose, whatever) but then the guy thinks he has a more serious problem than he really has. Then it becomes a viscious cycle caused by unnecessary mental anguish or concerns or worries. This is what you need to work on, no "trick up your sleeve" is going to fix it. Though it wouldn't hurt to take the downtime to focus on your woman.
I recommend picking a non-romantic moment to talk with her about it. Tell her your concerns. Maybe getting the vote of confidence from her that you're doing the right things will be enough to keep it up. Or maybe discussing new things to try with her will get you going again. Either way, I think nothing but good can come out of discussing it with her.
Just realize that the problem lays within the mental baggage department and nothing is wrong with your body. If you can get over your concerns and worries, you should be scott-free.
