AUGH
so here's the situation. i've had a crush on a boy i met my first semester of college. we've always flirted back and forth (although he's flity with everyone) but i had never really done anything about it. a few days ago though, he came into the library and we started talking. he invited me back to his fraternity house to hang out. so we're just sitting on his couch and talking and watching tv when he starts tickling me. well one thing leads to another and the next thing i know he's kissing me.well the kissing leads to other things (not sex) and when we're done he just looks at me and says 'i don't know what you did to me.. it's like you put a spell on me'. (corny but sweet)
the problem is this... we talked the next day and he said that he didn't mean to do what he had done... he lost control or something. he knows i like him, but i cant figure out his feelings for me. he's said he doesnt want a relationship right now, but i dont know if thats telling me to back off or not. half of me wants to keep hanging out with him in hopes that he'll like me, (or maybe he already does) but the other half doesnt want to get hurt. what should i do?
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