It's a catch 22 now bro. Since it has happened once to you, now the next time you'll be worried about it happening again. The more you think about it, the more likely it is to happen to you.
I can't offer you a trick. It's quite normal to be nervous the first time (or the first time with a new partner). Take your time and enjoy the ride. There's no need to be in a hurry about things. When the time is right, your body will come through for you.
Good luck...
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