Phew! I just read the entire thread. Took me a few days (broken into chunks, I'm not THAT slow a reader!).
I have to agree pretty much with what Plan9 has said. I don't believe it's so much about getting a piece of ass (although you can use it for that), but it's more about creating an attraction for the woman that she will find irresistable. I subscribe to David DeAngelo's mailing list (it can be found at <a href="http://www.doubleyourdating.com/">
http://www.doubleyourdating.com/</a>) which contains tons of success stories of people employing the same techniques that Plan9 espouses. If you have the chance, read DeAngelo's eBook as well, it pretty much agrees with what Plan9 says.