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I've unfortunately been there once before myself. Then I decided to step back and examine my life. Then I realized: I've got two sides- one, it feels so good and not wrong- two, it's bad and sinful to be doing this before marriage. Soon I decided that I will do what I feel is right and good to me, regardless of how I had been brought up.
The best thing for her to do, is what like everyone else has suggested- seeing a therapist. Hopefully it can uncover and resolve any bottled-up confusion or pain she may have from the past. But- best thing to do in your situation, as a suggestion, is to just be there for her and don't push the sex thing. I know it's hard, but respect her needs. Things will get better, regardless.
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