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i was raised with strong "values" about how sex is wrong unless you are married. maybe if she could talk to a counselor (not necessarily a shrink) about the psychological aspect of how she views sex. i imagine she wants to be able to enjoy sex with you, but i can understand what you described happening to her. i think it's just a matter of becoming personally ok with that aspect of her life, and realizing it's a natural beautiful act and it doesn't have to be ugly or wrong.
i've had to really fight with my inner self to deal with the issues of my upbringing and whatnot, but i ultimately had to find out what my values were apart from my parents, and i decided i didn't believe sex was wrong before marriage. hope that helps, and if i just sound like a ranting idiot, you can just ignore me. hope it all works out for you two.
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