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Old 01-24-2004, 12:41 PM   #322 (permalink)
woodhead
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Plan9, My apologies for being overly emotional in my posting. While beer and vodka leave me in a pleasantly conversational mood, I'm pretty sure that it was the sleeping pill that followed that led me to type faster than I could think. Referring to myself as a 'decent and honest bloke' I think is evidence of this, but on the positive side, at least this comment might have given me a clue as to what my brainstem thinks of me.

As far as me being uninformed about how real life works with women - I think that here you have touched the issue that differentiates our attitudes. Maybe it was even my mistake to post on a thread dedicated to 'getting tail', but I was curious about how other people thought about sex, and when I got the gist of what your polylogue was all about, I felt that I had to respond.

I agree that your psychological tools can be used to manipulate a girl into bed, but I am not so happy that you leave the matter at that and simplify sex as only being a game. To be sure, there are games involved, but this is only one element. Or better - to typify (as it seems to me that you do) all sexual relations as being a kind of game that can only be won or lost, leaves a huge hole in the possibilities of how one might interact with women. I understand this rating of women from 1 to 10, but it makes me feel uncomfortable. Why? Because it promotes a kind of blindness which might stop one from meeting a very ordinary girl who could save your life.

This is a thread about getting laid. I have fucked left right and centre while doing the exact opposite of what is recommended here. And also by doing what is recommended here. The only recipie is to go to bed with girls you like and take it like a man when they aren't interested.

PS As far as Russian women are concerned, I can only say that the available petabytes of the internet would only suffice to trivialise any discussion of them.

Having said that, I must ask - which Russian woman are you talking about? Russia per se includes about 200 ethnic groups and the former Soviet Republics adds a big handful more. The only way I can characterise them as a group is by saying that when God made Russian women, he was on a good run. He perfected spiteful vengeful whores as well as transparent selfless angels but gave them all beautiful faces and bodies (well, most of them). And most generously, He gave them all attention spans - something He omitted in the English speakers.

You noted that lots of Russian women want to go west. It's true. As you implied, Russian men fuck up in a big way with their 19th century attitudes and violence and drunkedness, but probably the strongest factor is sheer poverty. Student grants of US$10 per month, pensions of US$50 per month. The law doesn't work. It is easy to buy a judge who gets US$300 per month. Cost of living not much less than in the West. Of course people want to leave.

Enough of that. To put it simply, women don't advertise to come to the US because you are a big stud, but rather because there is a chance that their children won't starve there.

Please excuse me, I have to go out and meet some friends.

Until later,

W.
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