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Originally posted by sixate
Cheating is never an option for me. The circumstances don't matter.
Once a cheater always a cheater. Before I get involved with someone I try to find out if they've ever cheated. If they have then I'm gone. I won't get involved with someone I know isn't trustworthy.
My friend swears to be in love with his wife, yet he's cheated on her 15 times that I know of..... So yes, people can cheat even though they're in love, but not me.
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I can understand your feelings on that. But if it all possible sometimes trying to keep an open mind and not just listening to a person should they say "I have cheated", that doesn't seem quite so fair. I think sometimes you have to keep your ear open after those words have rang in your ear and listen to the circumtances.
You never know if you may be passing up someone who has a heart that longs for nothing more than to be with that one person. That one person who makes one feel as tho thier heart is secure and can be committed faithfully.
I guess at the age I am that most people that are single have had some kind of heartbreak in their life. Trying to find a person who hasn't is very few and far in between. It takes alot more work to become involved as a couple with a secure foundation. It's up to the people involved how much time and effort they want to put into to make that relationship a solid one. Once it becomes solid I can't see it being anything more than it would have to be all good.