My parents were married almost 30 years before my father died. My mother loved him through a lot of stuff (including being paralyzed).
I was married before, but it didn't work (I wanted a military life, she didn't; irony - Clinton's cutbacks cost me my career [too late]). There have been ups and downs, until I've met my latest (going on 3 years).
You want to ask other's advice; but here's the thing: How do YOU honestly feel about her? Do you honestly love each other?That last question is the only one that matters. I'm not saying you can't look-that's natural. But at the end of it all - do you truly want to be together?
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