Well, a woman's advice in this case would most likely be to tell your wife and the man's wife. Because she "has the right to know". And she may have the right to know, but you do not have the right to tell her.
But, being a man, I wouldn't even dream about getting involved in this mess. The thought that the man and his wife would thank you somewhere down the road for saving their marriage...that seems more like something out of a Barbara Cartland novel. Realistically, their marriage is their business, period.
Your friend may not have told you about it, but you are still bound by something called trust, and loyalty, in a friendship. He hasn't told you = you don't know. And you sure as heck don't tell.
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