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Originally posted by tisonlyi
Also, you really have no right to judge him at all.
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eh, unless he's also cheated on his wife, sure he does.
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Originally posted by ratbastid
Here's the thing. How will you react when your wife says, "You know, my friend has started to suspect that her husband is up to something on the side." In a circumstance like that, silence is a lie. So what you're biting off here is: are you willing to lie to your wife to cover your friend's ass?
I can't answer that for you. The answer for me is NO.
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Exactly. Not saying you should tell your wife now, but if she asks, I don't see how you couldn't be honest with her about it.
I'd talk to your friend. Not his wife or anything like that, but talk to him - and in a freindly way. Mention you heard/saw them and ask why he's doing it. Don't speak to him judgingly, but rather to seek to understand. Once you understand the reasons, then you acn help your friend rectify the situation in an amicable manner.