Sorry for her - and you and her boyfriend.
Happened to my girlfriend many years ago - while we were together, and damn, it's rough. Give her, and your other friend as much support as you can while keeping yourself whole.
Sounds like a broken record, but counseling is a good thing for ALL of you. These things go deeper than you are aware, and know that it will take some years to come to terms with it.
My personal belief is that this type of cruel and unjustifiable stuff has been going on since the dawn of man - read the Bible for plenty of horror stories.
I can't explain it, but we are one crazy species. We can only control our own lives and how we react to the evil in this world.
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