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I've been with my partner over a year. We are now engaged and live together. When we first started having sex (a little over a month into our relationship) she pursued me all the time. Jesus! I had a bit of trouble keeping up. Multiple times at night, multiple in the morning, then more mid afternoon. It was great but honestly sometimes I would run out of steam. As time has gone on, the frequency has dropped off considerably. Now I do most of the pursuing. I think part of it is that now that we live together the sence of urgency isn't there. Before, we just had weekends and the occasional weekday visit. Now that we are always available to each other I guess there is no need to "get it while you can and get a lot of it!" On the up side we still have sex averaging three times a week and now that we know each other better and are more comfortable together we experiment more and the sex has gotten more interesting, kinky, wilder, hotter, more adventurous all round.
As for beeing attracted to my partner, I wasn't nearly as physically attracted to my partner at first as I am now. Now I can add my attraction to her emotionally to the physical and that adds up to a big wallop! Things have definately gotten better from an already great start.
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