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Having been in a similiar situation I'll pass on what I did, for what its worth. I told the person that was cheating (she was my best friend) that I knew and that while I wouldn't volunteer the information to her husband I wanted to be in no way involved in her subterfuge. I also stated that if specifically asked by her husband I wouldn't lie. I told her these things generally come out in the end and the sooner she broke it off the less likely she was to destroy her marriage if she had any intention of trying to save it. As it turned out she continued, the husband found out, they got a divorce and went their own ways. It was sad but they both seem happier now. I'm glad I didn't get dragged into the whole thing. I've been able to stay friends with them both, though my trust level and respect for the cheating wife has dropped considerably. Don't know if this helps, but its one "real-life" example of your sort of situation. Good luck.
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