I have never cheated on Secret, and I don't plan too.
While I do love him very much, of course I've found other people attractive and entertained thoughts in my head of being with them, but imagining being with someone else and taking action are of course very different.
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Originally posted by *Nikki*
I know for myself it has never crossed my mind with my current partner. However in the past I have been in love and considered doing it b/c I felt neglected on many levels in the relationship.
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The only time that I was very seriously tempted to cheat was in a sort of similar situation. A long distance relationship is hard enough as it is, and at that time I was quite busy and hardly talking to Secret at all. I didn't feel 'neglected' in that he didn't care about me, but because we were communicating a great deal less than we had been, the connection was not as strong, and it was easier to stray. So, yes, I think there is definently a connection between being 'neglected' and cheating. I still loved Secret very much, but because I didn't feel the same connection towards him as before, the temptation to cheat was far stronger.