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My wife and I are struggle with this all the time. For some reason, we can't communicate when it comes to sex. When we have sex, it's usually pretty great, it's just a matter of initiating it. Despite being attracted to each other, despite having good results when we have sex, there is some weird barrier when it comes to actually initiating it. Maybe because we're BOTH passive people sexually. We want the other person to be the assertive one.
Well the long and the short of it is that my wife and I probably have sex less frequently than other married couples our age (late 20's). It's a source of tension right now, and I've actually considered marriage counseling to help us out.
But based on other people's responses here, our situation seems to be the minority. That, or I'm the first one brave enough to admit it....
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