Here's my persective. In my marriage of 8 years, there have been many times that we haven't gotten along, she's refused sex for various reason, and the like. Cheating has crossed my mind, but I couldn't do it. The guilt I would feel would kill me, since I married my wife for love, and the love is still there. There is the "it's just sex" thing, that I contemplated, but the love thing over ruled all. During those times, I spent plenty of time at strip clubs and paid for lots of porn on the net, but cheated, nope.
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