| Here's my persective.  In my marriage of 8 years, there have been many times that we haven't gotten along, she's refused sex for various reason, and the like.  Cheating has crossed my mind, but I couldn't do it.  The guilt I would feel would kill me, since I married my wife for love, and the love is still there.  There is the "it's just sex" thing, that I contemplated, but the love thing over ruled all.  During those times, I spent plenty of time at strip clubs and paid for lots of porn on the net, but cheated, nope. |