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Originally posted by eyeronic
So here's another question:
How do you avoid letting kids ruin your marriage?
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No no no, kids don't ruin a marriage. I love my kids and I love my wife, at this moment in time we are living in different "worlds" so we are both having some problems w/ our communication.
I work full time and she works double full time at home w/ the kids. And you shouldn't make the children think that they are the problem, I lived w/ that for years after my parents divorced, having them fight back and forth (for a good 24+ years) until I realized that everything was their own damage..
Now my sister-in-law, who was (and still is) having problems in her marriage decided that if she had a child everything in the world would be set right. She didn't understand that kids are not some magical solution, that they both actually needed to work out their problems; now it looks like she maybe staying at my house this summer...oh lord help me.