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Been there, it hurts, but in my case, we were together and her doctor was wrong. she had 14-16 months to live, we were together for those but instead of getting worse, she actually got a bit better and better. We ended up splitting ways afterwards and she's still alive and well now. I'm not saying i helped her in any way or that she overcame whatever, but i am saying that knowing that she wouldn't be there later and knowing that everyday may be the last i spend with her really made the relationship a wonderful experience. Even if she passed away, i would still feel that way bc i gave my heart to someone who really needed it at the time. i've lost friends and it's tough, but through all this, i've found that you really have to treat everyone yo'ure close to as if it were going to be the last time you would see them. It really brings things into perspective bc it really could be....
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Live.
Chris
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