Together 12 years, married 8.
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Originally posted by *Nikki*
What happens to your sex life as time goes on??
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It's a roller coaster. For a long time, sex got really stale and routine for us. And less frequent than either of us would have liked. It looked like "real life" was intruding on the passion we'd once had.
Then we saw that and interrupted that about a year ago, and since then (with a brief hiatus to mourn a dead loved one) it's been blue sky all the way, baby! Sex is better now than it's ever been. We're more experimental and inventive than we've ever been, and we're exploring all sorts of new things.
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How does time effect the consistancy of sex?
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I assume when you say consistancy, you mean frequency? Again, it's what you make of it.
The natural pull of things is to have it become less and less of a priority. And in that way, it's not about the sex, the sex is just a symptom. The natural pull of things is to have
the relationship itself become less and less a priority, for partners to take each other more and more for granted.
But it doesn't
have to be that way.
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Do you feel more/less attracted to your partner then you initially did?
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Way way way way more.
And I was pretty damn attracted to her when I was 17 and she was 18.