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4 1/2 years married. Together 6 years
What happens to your sex life as time goes on??
It evolves with each of you singly and as a whole. If your not getting along in your marriage then the discord will reflect itself in your sex life.
How does time effect the consistancy of sex?
It isn't time so much as stress and circumstances. The phrase "familiarity breeds contempt" may have some bearing on the excitment factor but each of you are changing and growing and still constantly adjusting and learning the new you. When you get lazy things will get boring. There is a level of comfort that develops when you are in each other's arms. That kind of comfort can't be found anywhere else the more you are together.
Do you feel more/less attracted to your partner then you initially did?
I would say personally it's the same LEVEL of attraction. The things that attract me aren't the same. The newness isn't as bright but the things we've learned sexually since marriage have made it more exciting in OTHER ways. It's like coming home after a long trip - You enjoyed the excitment of the trip (like the excitement of a new relationship) but you are so glad to be home and where things feel more safe. It's where you belong. You fit and you are needed.
Granted hubby and I have been swinging for a year now but we were with each other exclusively for 5 years before that.
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