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I have been happily married for 6 years this July. This has been the best 6 years of my life. My birthday is July 13th (Thursday, not Friday) My wifs is July 11th. Our anniversary is on July 12th. This makes us both Cancers. Our household is what I lovingly call an emotional shipwreck. When we fight, it is with a fervor that is extreme to say the least. We never get abusive in our fights, we keep it on the level of venting our frustrations. When we LOVE!!!! Well, going into detail on that would turn this post into a trashy romantic novel.
The important thing that my wife and I learned was that you cannot expect to change something about the other person. If there are unresolved problems when you go into a marriage, these problems will go and fester like an untreated infection. Solve the problems when they come up. Compromise, that is the most important thing to remember. You both have to compromise. If you have strong doubts before you get married, then there are unresolved issues. Solve them or do not get married.
I hope this will help.
Enjoy
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