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		| Originally posted by SiN whenever you're not using birth control
  
 sorry, but having seen your abortion thread, that's the only advise i feel comfortable giving.
  
 good luck to you.
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 I've always been on birth control i just never remembered the pill.  I have now switched to the patch but we still want to use a back up method just not all the time because I really don't like condoms.  So I was just wondering when the safest time would be not to use one.