Ok, here goes...
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3. Behind every behavior is a positive intention.
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Depends what you mean by positive, but I doubt it. It's quite possible to take an action with the sole intention of hurting someone. Example, lashing out in anger without stopping to think about the consequences.
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5. The meaning of a communication is the response you get.
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Not sure I understand this one. The intended meaning or the perceived meaning?
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8. In any system, the element with the most flexibility exerts the most influence.
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More likely, the element with the most flexibility is the most likely to be changed by another element that's exerting influence.
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10. If someone can do something, anyone can learn it.
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It would be nice if this was true, but the fact is that biology, genetics, etc. impose certain limitations. As much as I might want to be an olympic sprinter, fact is that because of my physical size, someone who invested an equal amount of determination and training but had longer legs would still win.
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11. You cannot fail to communicate.
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See #5. You may be communicating
something, but it certainly might not be what you intended.
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3. Character traits are not negative or positive, they just are.
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Only to the extent that any fact has no intrinsic value except what we assign to it. Character traits can certainly be negative or positive in relation to a particular moral code. I imagine a lot of people would have issue with the statement that callousness to the point of watching an innocent person die when it would cost nothing to step in and save them is not a negative trait.
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2. Life is about personal growth -- but we have a choice to grow or not to grow.
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http://www.tfproject.org/tfp/showthr...threadid=41857
There are lots of different theories for this one, it just depends on who you are. Me, I think personal growth is important, but it's not the end-all, worth pursuing for its own sake. It's simply a means of attaining happiness.
Unity with what? Other people? Some kind of universal soul? Debatable either way. What does it mean to be unified?
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3. All meaning is metaphorical.
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Again, not sure what this means (yeah, I know
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