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Originally posted by Strange Famous
... I dont think I look that gay, and no women ever come up to me in clubs or pubs and ask me out so I shouldnt see why only men do.
I dont really mind it, although I have to admit it does creep me out a little even though I know it really shouldnt.
How would or do other people take it if someone of the same gender comes across as being interested, but you are straight?
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There is no such thing as "looking" gay. Please don't invoke an overused sterotype.
Take it as a compliment, change your body language to indicate you lack of interest, but also respect that it may have taken courage to come up and talk to you on their part. How long do you gather your courage before going to talk to a good looking girl? It's no different.
Having lived on Espanola way on South Beach, I personaly take it in stride, subtly shift my body language, and still make conversation with them since it's just plain rude to ignore someone who tries to have a nice conversation with you.
Just because i'm staright doesn't mean i shouldn't be freindly.