Holo

Well, you could get yourself tested and in an alone moment tell her, "I like you and hope we continue to get to know each other better. I don't want to look like I'm jumping the gun, but I got tested today and I wanted you to know I'm clean." Have the test results with you in case she wants to see them. This puts her in the position to tell you anything she needs to or get tested her self. You've shown that it's important to you without being accusatory. You've taken an interest in her safety by showing you are clean, and she should respect you for that.

Of course you don't do this on the first date, but after a few dates to build some rapport as long as sexual contact isn't going on. I don't get too sexual until a few dates have gone by so I can't tell you what to do if you are having casual sex, but that's what I would do. Make yourself the subject so she doesn't feel put on the spot, and then give her the leeway to tell you if she's clean or not. If she says yes it's up to you to trust her or not without proof.

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I happen to like the words "fuck", "cock", "pussy", "tits", "cunt", "twat", "shit" and even "bitch". As long as I am not using them to describe you, don't go telling me whether or not I can/should use them...that is, if you want me to continue refraining from using them to describe you. ~Prince