As others have said here already it's all in the communications. This is an area of sexual activities that some people will never get into either so if you talk plenty about it and she is still adamant about it just give it up. If its that important to you find fetish pron to satisfy that need or another girl if you NEED it. Whatever you do DON"T surprise her with it. I am very open to different types of fetishes and willing to try almost anything at least once. I take the "you can't knock it till you try it" philosophy. I have allowed hubby to give me golden showers in the shower but never where it will make a mess. He surprised me with a golden shower on the bed once. He's lucky I didn't knock his block off and only made his wash the bedclothes. I haven't cooperated with it since.
Golden showers aren's a natural progression - if you talk about it clearly and calmly you might get a little cooperation out of her. When I did cooperate with it I just made the condition that it couldn't be in my face. The smell just nauseated me.
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