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If you discovered someone you had been dating had an incurable STD would you reject them or stop dating them?

Imagine the scenario:

You've been on a few dates, nothing sexual has happened, you guys hit it off and they are a person you'd like to get to know. Then they sit you down and say they need to tell you something. They tell you they have an incurable STD, whether it be AIDS, Herpes, or Hep B or C. You really like this person in every other way, and you find them attractive. They tell you they will answer every question you have, and if you can't deal with it, they will understand.


Would you run out of the room? Would you politely tell them you can't deal with that? Would you educate yourself on the disease and see if safe sex is posssible and could be as fun as regular sex? Keep in mind they cared for your safety and didn't do anything sexual with you before informing you of their illness.


I could deal with most diseases, tho I would be given pause about someone with AIDS. It's not just the fact that you could get a fatal disease, but the fact that you get involved with someone who is most likely to die within 10 years. If I really felt something special for the person, I mean take a bullet for them kinda special, I would try. Herpes is nothing to me, I knew someone with it and a normal life with good sex is very possible. You can get an immunization against Hepatitis,and it's not too common a disease as AIDS and herpes AFAIK.


So what would you do?

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