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Its not so much about 'aloofness', I guess. People who talk to me once, then never again - I never have a second thought about.
I honestly still have the same problem as you. I was always "one of the boys" to the guys I was hanging out with in my earlier high school years, but now I actually get a little bit of attention. Honestly, my 'stopping caring' is what probably got me out of my rut. I didn't go out of my way to impress anyone, and I didn't do things in order to get with guys. Friendships developed, which turned into relationships.
Well, my advice completely sucks, so I'm sorry. My best best is probably just confidence building, and be the nice guy that you already are. Aloofness and cockyness doesn't get you anywhere. (In my books, anyways)
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