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Originally posted by raeanna74
I'm not a guy but as far as I know talking about sex with a guy kindof makes him think it might be ok to WANT sex with you.
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There's a huge difference between WANTING to have sex with someone's girlfriend, and whether or not you'd ever act on it.
In my group of friends, there was a girl, R, and a guy, C, who were together. EVERYONE joked about wanting to bang her, and we all had many good laughs- most especially C. How flattering is it that all your buddies want to bag your girl? Of all of us, though, there's not 1 who would EVER try anything. Flirt like hell, but all in fun, and never actually act on it. C is like my brother. We're very tight. I've made more jokes about bending R over than I have about almost any other girl. He knows it's just an appreciation thing, and it's all in good fun, and with all due respect. C is about the most honest, good-hearted, decent guy I've ever known. And honestly- if he one day said to us, "guys, no more with the R humor, ok?" We'd all immediately stop. Not all friendships are solid enough to recognize respect. Maybe you don't know this friend as well as you think you do, and he's just playing around.