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Ustwo · 01-14-2004, 08:14 PM

Ok Strange famous I'll share with you the 'tricks' I learned from being a one night stander with no long term serious girls to dating several at the same time and I ended up marrying one of them.

#1 - Work out. You don't have to look very built but it helps the confidence a LOT. I don't know if its hormonal or just a state of mind, but working out changed my mindset quite a bit. I don't know if women have a ability to 'sense' fitness, but it seemed more were approaching me and interested in me after I had been working out for about 4 months then before. Maybe its some Darwinian genetic thing, or maybe something they could see, but it helped.

#2 - Treat them like an asshole, you are being to nice. Now before you say this isn't you, it doesn't have to be you, you just need to get them interested and involved with you, and THEN you can be 100% you. Let me explain. When I was only doing 'so-so' with women, I couldn't figure it out. I was nice, I was smart, I was pretty good looking, and I was sleeping alone WAY to often. Then I realized my problem, I was being to nice to girls, to attentive, to willing to please them. Sure many will SAY they want that, but sex doesn't think with the forebrain. What that says to a woman's gonads is 'He really wants you, lets see if you can get someone even better!'. They know they could have you and most will not be attracted to it. Maybe if you were an Adonis it wouldn't matter, but not many of us are. You need to make HER think you are not really that interested in her. Then it becomes a challenge, her gonads think 'hey I’m good enough for this guy, I bet I can get him!' and she is attracted to you. This sounds silly to a lot of people, and I've told this theory to mixed company before, and most girls would say in a group I was wrong, and then later several would talk to me and say I was right but they didn't want to say it in front of other people.

Now when I say treat them like an asshole that doesn't mean tell them to fuck off, beat them, or steal their lunch money. It just means be less attentive, less willing to please, and more willing to leave them alone. Be more aloof. Don't tell them your feelings on this and that, and they will WANT to know them. You won't start out a friend, but you may gain a lover. Then after she is dating you and the like you can lower your guard, so to speak, be yourself, and have a lot of sex too.

01-14-2004, 08:14 PM	#28 (permalink)
Ustwo Pissing in the cornflakes	Ok Strange famous I'll share with you the 'tricks' I learned from being a one night stander with no long term serious girls to dating several at the same time and I ended up marrying one of them. #1 - Work out. You don't have to look very built but it helps the confidence a LOT. I don't know if its hormonal or just a state of mind, but working out changed my mindset quite a bit. I don't know if women have a ability to 'sense' fitness, but it seemed more were approaching me and interested in me after I had been working out for about 4 months then before. Maybe its some Darwinian genetic thing, or maybe something they could see, but it helped. #2 - Treat them like an asshole, you are being to nice. Now before you say this isn't you, it doesn't have to be you, you just need to get them interested and involved with you, and THEN you can be 100% you. Let me explain. When I was only doing 'so-so' with women, I couldn't figure it out. I was nice, I was smart, I was pretty good looking, and I was sleeping alone WAY to often. Then I realized my problem, I was being to nice to girls, to attentive, to willing to please them. Sure many will SAY they want that, but sex doesn't think with the forebrain. What that says to a woman's gonads is 'He really wants you, lets see if you can get someone even better!'. They know they could have you and most will not be attracted to it. Maybe if you were an Adonis it wouldn't matter, but not many of us are. You need to make HER think you are not really that interested in her. Then it becomes a challenge, her gonads think 'hey I’m good enough for this guy, I bet I can get him!' and she is attracted to you. This sounds silly to a lot of people, and I've told this theory to mixed company before, and most girls would say in a group I was wrong, and then later several would talk to me and say I was right but they didn't want to say it in front of other people. Now when I say treat them like an asshole that doesn't mean tell them to fuck off, beat them, or steal their lunch money. It just means be less attentive, less willing to please, and more willing to leave them alone. Be more aloof. Don't tell them your feelings on this and that, and they will WANT to know them. You won't start out a friend, but you may gain a lover. Then after she is dating you and the like you can lower your guard, so to speak, be yourself, and have a lot of sex too. __________________ Agents of the enemies who hold office in our own government, who attempt to eliminate our "freedoms" and our "right to know" are posting among us, I fear.....on this very forum. - host Obama - Know a Man by the friends he keeps. Last edited by Ustwo; 01-14-2004 at 08:45 PM..