With the exception of Kungfu guy I'm astonished as to how little you know about a common ailment. And yes KungFu Guy chicken pox is varicella zoster.
You only need worry about contracting herpes (regarless of the variety) if the carrier is shedding virus through open lessions/sores.
Herpes stricken anatomy:
Vagina:
http://www.hc-sc.gc.ca/pphb-dgspsp/s...mages/h990.jpg
http://www.med.sc.edu:85/virol/primaryvulval.jpg
Penis:
http://www.geilundsafe.at/std/pics/herpgen.jpg
Oral
http://www.emedicine.com/aaem/images/120Oral_Herpes.jpg
A useful link is:
http://biology.kenyon.edu/stures/com...l#Transmission
Viral shedding (possibility of transmission) can also occur prior to visible queues of reactivation