Naturally, I dont think *most* men are the greatest listeners. With girls, we tend to care, listen and pay attention to whats going on in each other's as well as our SO's lives. I just dont think it comes as easily to guys..... I think for the most part, a high percentage of guys find it difficult to give their g/f's advice and words of comfort. NOw I am by no means speaking for all guys..... and I am not trying to diss them in any way. I just think that generally, they lack the intution that alot of women have my simply looking at or talking to a person and identifying something is wrong.
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